The Fore parents , Adam and Eve
God gave Adam a wife, Eve
Knowing self
Adam noticed that none of the animals he named resembled him. At the end of giving all things names Adam was tired and lonely. No one to talk with.
God’s Response
“… “It is not good for a man to be alone.” I will make a helper suitable for him.
“… So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs[b] and then closed up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib[c] he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man…” ( Genesis 2:18-25, NIV).
God notes Adam preferred to live like other flocks with a partner, he received the wife with great joy even forgot to thank God-could be the reason the few number of men thank their wives for a delicious meal.
Argument
Even though God made Adam in his image, God did not confront Adam about his decision to align himself with other flocks. God granted Adam’s wish for a fellow human, an appropriate aid in the form of Eve. The loneliness was alleviated for Adam.
If God didn’t quarrel with Adam but instead gave him what made him happy without arguing, then who are you, wife, to start a heated debate with Adam over anything? Note wife, you stand in place for God to bring delight to Adam as God did with Adam without arguing. God was aware that Adam required a capable helper—wife because he was incapable of holding a fight. It makes sense why a man would run off with another lady who could protect him from conflict.
Security
Little Adam, our sons, are afraid when their mothers and sisters yell at them. Little Adam runs to the mother and clings to her because they have nowhere else to run to when they are afraid. The mother is an adequate caregiver for these young Adam.
The wives and mothers should be able to handle both Adam’s ages—the adult Adam and the young Adam who is still growing—gently. If both the father and the little boy are men, the mother/wife should take a communication course to learn how to deal with both their ages. Read Genesis 2:18–25 to see how God met Adam’s needs and then emulate God’s behavior to maintain harmony and joy in your family.
Opinion
My experience is Adam-man big or little is conquered with a low soft voice. High voices and arguments blowout Adam’s brain.
Noisy and argumentative wife is feared by a her husband-Bible:
“Specifically Proverbs 21:9 — ‘Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. ‘ And Proverbs 21:19 — ‘Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.”
Love
Adam’s challenging situation was covered by God’s love and serenity. He put Adam to sleep, helped him unwind, woke him up, and then gave him the answer: his wife. Wife, treat your husband the same way as his flaws offer solace, a nap, affection, relaxation, serenity, and solution-a cup of tea, a meal when you wake him up. When God created you, wife, He gave you the capacity and knowledge to deal with Adam.
Pray to God for wisdom and ability if you lack them.
Association
Choose friends carefully. The canning Serpent was no a good friend of the Adam, and Eve family! Avoid association with like people.
Jealousy
Adam and Eve: the two sons. The older son, Cain killed the younger brother, Abel because of jealousy. Tame on time any mushrooming behaviors in kids as they are growing up.
Prayer
Philippians 4:6 says, “Do not worry about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”
Being the mother of a man is a huge honor for women. God, we thank you for these mothers.
Communication
Adam and his wife Eve, after realizing their shortcomings that they were nicked, did not quarrelsome but sought for a solution- one hiding from God and second sewing clothes from green leaves to cover their naked bodies. It is kind not to spill out family affairs for all to hear and see. Work out a solution while inside your bedroom to protect the rest from your polluted words.
Concern
God’s love and mercy instead of hatching Adam and Eve, provided them with durable clothes from the skin of an animal.
Responsibility
The difficult moment for Adam and Eve was that none even Serpent [accepted the responsibility of the reason they became nicked. Taking the responsibility of one’s sin without shame or cutting corners creates a positive solution. For example, the woman at the well was commended by Jesus: “… He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.”
“I have no husband,” she replied.
Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true…” (John 4:17-18, NIV). She took responsibility and she became recorded in this page of the Bible for telling the truth that she never had a husband of her own. She conquered her fear and shame.
Solution
Good news is God’s love and value for the family consistency:
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.”
(John 3:16-17).
God gave his only begotten Son to save the family by giving life after the first death so that the family will not suffer the second death but have eternal life with God in heaven from where the Serpent was dropped to the earth.
The family has to believe in Jesus Christ to get into eternal life with Jesus in heaven. And Jesus walking the family through the earthly journey
“…Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me…” (John 14:6, NIV).
God is always there to help a family.