First, after great consideration on each person’s part, the two merge to form one. They are trusted with starting a family, too.
Thirdly, they set up the necessary conditions for creativity: a healthy body weight, a balanced nutrition, the joy of creation, as well as dedication and responsibility.
Fourth, watch out for those who would work against your family’s good intentions.
Gather knowhow from the example in the bible,
“The Parable of the Weeds
24 Jesus told them another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field. 25 But while everyone was sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away. 26 When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, then the weeds also appeared.
27 “The owner’s servants came to him and said, ‘Sir, didn’t you sow good seed in your field? Where then did the weeds come from?’
28 “‘An enemy did this,’ he replied.
“The servants asked him, ‘Do you want us to go and pull them up?’
29 “‘No,’ he answered, ‘because while you are pulling the weeds, you may uproot the wheat with them. 30 Let both grow together until the harvest. At that time I will tell the harvesters: First collect the weeds and tie them in bundles to be burned; then gather the wheat and bring it into my barn (Matt 13:24-43, NIV).”
My main takeaway is to avoid sleeping as a family, to remain vigilant, and to stop the enemy before it can harm your loved ones. Damage done by the adversary is permanent.The only one who can solve it is Jesus Christ. You can choose to concur with me that no system dares to offer a practical remedy for the destruction of people united together in a marriage since they become one body. No amount of surgery can spiritually separate them from one another. It is difficult to pluck out weeds without endangering wheat. What we see today is that due to animosity, siblings develop into nations and create weapons of mass destruction to destroy one another.
The good news is that by confessing our sins to one another and to Jesus Christ, we can drive the enemy from a family before harm is done.