In order for humanity to learn the art of coexistence and avoid solitude, it is believed that God created the perfect companion: woman. With Eve by his side, Adam faced the challenge of adapting to a life that was no easier than before. However, their peaceful existence was tragically disrupted due to Adam’s solitary nature, which had never exposed him to the cunning serpent lurking nearby. In contrast, Eve, being more social in nature, engaged in conversation with the serpent. Consequently, Adam had to undergo numerous adaptations as he navigated the various roles of husband, father, and witness to the tragic events involving their children, Cain and Abel.
Adam had to share his space in all the family’s situations.
The initial phase of their relationship was filled with joy and the excitement of a honeymoon. However, as time progressed, they encountered numerous challenges that tested their commitment: interference from the cunning serpent, Eve’s pregnancy, the demanding task of raising two sons, and the heart-wrenching loss of a child. Remarkably, despite these trials, they remained steadfast in their union, never resorting to separation or divorce. They persevered through the difficulties and eventually reached a third stage of stability, where their children grew up and left the nest, allowing the couple to once again share the same space as they did in the beginning.
Sadly, in today’s world, many men struggle to attain this level of stability. The pressures of life often become overwhelming, pushing some men to the brink. Some may choose to repeat the cycle with a different partner, while others may face premature death before reaching the desired state of stability. Some find solace by living with family or relatives, while others may end up on the streets, incarcerated, or living a solitary existence. Tragically, some may experience poor health, leading to their demise or even contemplate ending their own lives. The challenges that men face in achieving lasting stability in their lives are a somber reflection of the complexities of the modern world.
Empowering Women: Catalysts for Change
As wives, mothers, and women, we hold a significant role in society that we cannot overlook or underestimate. We were designated by God as suitable helpers to support and care for men, specifically Adam.
Throughout history, we have witnessed the profound impact women can have in rescuing and protecting males in need. Abigail, for instance, intervened and saved her husband from the wrath of King David. Rebecca shielded her son Jacob from the anger of his brother Esau. The mothers of Moses and Jesus courageously safeguarded their children from the threats posed by Herod and Pharaoh, respectively.
In our current era, the timeless saying of the Gīkūyū people, “kīrema arūme nīkīgariūre” (women rescue males), remains as relevant as ever. Mothers and women serve as transformative agents across all domains of life. As of 2022, our numbers are nearly equal to that of men in the global population. With a positive mindset, we can shape our behavior and attire in a way that respects and uplifts men—the fathers and the boys. By doing so, we can dismantle the prevailing stereotype that undermines men’s emotions.
Women possess a unique blessing: the ability to carry a child within their wombs for nine months, and we typically remain present during the crucial first eighteen years of their lives. This period offers an opportune time to establish a solid foundation that will positively impact future generations.
A wealth of literature exists to explain the natural bond between a boy and his mother, a connection divinely ordained. Men cannot thrive in isolation; they need our support. As women, it is our duty to tailor our assistance to their needs. All mothers should adopt the mentality of fostering joyous conditions within their homes for both men and boys. While it is not always the case, many frightened men seek solace in women’s embrace or return to the protective care of their mothers. Their hearts yearn for the comforting, gentle voice of a wife, mother, or woman.
Let us embrace our power as women, recognizing the incredible influence we possess. By uplifting and supporting men, we become catalysts for positive change in our homes, communities, and society at large. Together, we can create a harmonious world where both genders thrive and flourish.
Women Empowering Men: United for Change
The power of women working together can have a transformative impact on the lives of men. Take, for instance, the inspiring story of Deborah and Jael. Deborah led the pursuit of Sisera, while Jael ultimately put an end to his reign. Through their collaboration, these two women saved their nation (Judges 4:14-21, NIV). Such examples from history serve as a reminder that women have the ability to effect change even in modern times.
It is undeniable that if men and boys face challenges and struggles, women will inevitably experience the consequences as well. As mothers, women hold tremendous potential as agents of change. It is crucial for women worldwide to join forces and address intolerable situations within families, aiming to alleviate the significant burden placed on men—a collective effort reminiscent of the partnership between Deborah and Jael. Personally, I find myself in a challenging situation with ten male family members and eighteen grandsons.
The question arises: How can we achieve the noble objective of bettering the lives of our sons, husbands, and fathers?
By fostering unity and collaboration, women can play a pivotal role in promoting positive change. We must actively engage in dialogue, support one another, and advocate for the rights and well-being of men. Empathy, understanding, and compassion are key elements in our journey towards creating a better world for all. By actively addressing the concerns and struggles faced by men, we can work towards building stronger families, communities, and societies as a whole.
It is through collective action and a shared commitment that we can empower our sons, husbands, and fathers to reach their full potential. By nurturing a supportive environment that encourages open communication and celebrates the unique qualities of each individual, we can pave the way for a brighter future. Let us draw inspiration from the remarkable stories of Deborah and Jael, as we forge ahead in our quest for a more equitable and harmonious world.
Revolutionizing Healthcare: Harnessing New Technology
The answer lies in the advancements of new technology that are transforming the way we care for ourselves and others. One notable innovation is the retooling of a person’s ID to encompass vital information, allowing for instant identification and detection of any abnormal bodily changes that require immediate attention.
Take, for example, the “freestyle libre 2,” a blood sugar monitoring device. It continuously monitors blood sugar levels, alerting the individual, whether awake or asleep, if levels are too high or too low. The device persists until the issue is resolved, ensuring timely intervention and care.
Implementing this technology for identifying individuals and their health conditions holds immense benefits. It enhances a family’s health education and provides an added layer of security. Furthermore, it improves overall efficiency in the workforce, healthcare sector, business performance, and contributes to progress on a global scale. Screening fetuses for diseases, hormonal imbalances, and monitoring health throughout one’s lifespan would save both time and money.
Women, as the designated suitable helpers to Man, have the power to make a significant difference in the lives of all. Embracing these technological advancements and advocating for their widespread adoption can lead us towards a future where healthcare is proactive, efficient, and accessible to all. Let us seize this opportunity to shape a better world for ourselves and future generations.